Tuesday, August 7, 2018

Do we lack someone to fight with ?

Yes, the whole generation is onto getting depressed for a long time now. Everyone,  from Celebs to normal people are suddenly stuck with this epidemic of Depression. One feels lonely, left out in  the crowd. There is this compulsion to be nice. compulsion to be happy!
Families are smaller. People's gatherings are smaller. Loads of work. People talk only for the purpose of getting work done. Lesser time pass.
Ok, I know there might be people who will disagree to the above. I must say they would be the lucky few. In this world directed by a handful of conglomerates, it is the marketeers that lead the way to happiness or depression to happiness again telling you that see, we made you happy and you owe us loyalty now. (money included).
Can there be a little solution?
I was taking a class, therein a little kid mentioned that if in case my friend is sad &  depressed, I will fight with him to make him feel better! BinGO !!??
Actually! We do lack that person whom we can fight with and make up later and still be together. There are people who bicker continuously. I think they truly would not be as depressed.  I have heard conversations from elders - anyone - that they had a fight (by fight - I mean fight not argument ) with the colleague and they still talking as good the next day. Yes, they were black listed (sort of) in each others list but they still worked together. No. not due to self compulsion (of paying the EMI's ), but that of a job. Most of them were onto government jobs. They knew they had to stick together till they retired. There werent so many choices. They could then fume on each other and still be together the next day or maybe next to next.

It comes to my mind, so will someone to fight to suffice ? What effect will the fighting have on the next person ? Then should that person also de-stress via fighting.  Should every relation be - as in just be ? without a single fight at all ? love-ly fight ?